He said "nice thong"...

[udontknowme]

I'm a girl.

Theres this guy at work that I like who I think might like me too.
Anyway, the other day we were in the office talking and I bent down to get a light bulb, and he was behind me, and must have seen it a little cuz he went, "nice thong."

But he said it kinda quietly and at first I didn't know what he said, so I turned around real fast and was like, "what?"

And he goes, "nothing."

It took me like a second to figure out what he said. I was kinda shocked that he would say something like that since he seems kinda shy.

So whats the deal when a guy says something like that? Would you consider it just joking around between friends, or maybe flirting possibly? Would a guy make a comment like that to someone he just considers a friend? We haven't even hung out together yet ever, so it's not like we're close buddies or anything...

 

[Bvbidd]

lol sounds to me like it came out by accident and it's never just joking between friends I can't belive you chicks think that.

If a guy makes a comment like that with you it's not a joke. Even if he's laughing when he says it and you have been buddies.
If your a girl and a guy talks to you about anything sexual he wants you automatically.

But it came out by accident if he's shy.

 

[ObieJuan]

Maybe he was talking to himself but said it aloud? After you noticed he caught himself. So are you attracted to the guy or what? You came here for an answer so I am assuming you are?

 

[dirtyvibe]

i joke arround with girls like that all the time..

 

[Bvbidd]

Yeah it's joking but you like the thong when you joke about it right?

Yeah.

It's not like you'd say it to some fat ugly chick that you hate looking at. You'd just ignore her.

She's wondering if he's actually attracted to her and I'm saying of course he is.

 

[Ol'BlueEyes]

Ever consider...

That you might get such a reaction when you put on that ass floss?

 

[hope7]

you should've been like 'you like my thong? here let me give you a better look"
or, "can i see yours now?" and when he says 'what', say 'nothing'

just playing

Seriously though, yah he likes you since you're not close friends. Especially since he's shy, he would make some non-sexual jokes around you before going sexual.

 

[johnny789]

He wants to tap your ass.

 

[Delta]

are you hot?

if you are, that was not a friendly comment. that was a comment of, "i'd like to be wearing it around my neck."

come on... how old are you? stuff like this should be pretty obvious for girls over 15... no?

delta

 

[udontknowme]

Hey boys, thanx for all your replies!
Somebody asked how old I am...I'm 20.
And someone else asked if I like him, and yeah, I do. I'm slowly trying to figure out if maybe he likes me too, lol.
Umm...Idk if I'd consider myself "hot". I'm think I'm more "cute" than hot, if you get the difference, lol.
I think I get what you guys are saying...it just kinda took me by surprise he's not this real ****y guy who goes around hitting on every girl he sees, he's more reserved and shy than that. Which I guess makes this kinda comment even better, I mean in terms in whether he likes me or not!

 

[Impact]

Hey boys, thanx for all your replies!
Somebody asked how old I am...I'm 20.
And someone else asked if I like him, and yeah, I do. I'm slowly trying to figure out if maybe he likes me too, lol.
Umm...Idk if I'd consider myself "hot". I'm think I'm more "cute" than hot, if you get the difference, lol.
I think I get what you guys are saying...it just kinda took me by surprise he's not this real ****y guy who goes around hitting on every girl he sees, he's more reserved and shy than that. Which I guess makes this kinda comment even better, I mean in terms in whether he likes me or not!

lol
I would never say that to a woman who I dont find attractive, so yes he wants you! Try to give him other signs that you like him, and let us know what happens.

 

[hope7]

Dude, that guy might be a member here, I found a post by a guy who described your situation exactly the same.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=992434#post992434

 

[Bvbidd]

WTF was that last post?

Anyway, use this post as proof that chicks can like guys who they know are shy. It's just the shy guys won't do anything! Just more proof that the way this site describes attraction is utter bullsh!t.

Confidence will get you to make the move but not make the girl like you. That's why confident freaks still don't get laid. Because who cares if their confident if their still freaks.

 

[jack knife]

Yeah wtf. Hope7, you are a tool.

 

[hope7]

Yeah wtf. Hope7, you are a tool.

its called a joke dude. calm down, everythings gonna be alright.

 

[Method Boy]

There's no such thing as girls on the internet. I don't believe you.

 

[mrRuckus]

I'm a girl.

The name of this section of the forum is "don juan discussion." Not "dumbass teenage Juanita discussion"

 

[Bvbidd]

The name of this section of the forum is "don juan discussion." Not "dumbass teenage Juanita discussion"

What the hell was that?

 

[hope7]

The name of this section of the forum is "don juan discussion." Not "dumbass teenage Juanita discussion"

The name of this section of the forum is "don juan discussion". Not "jerkstore customer discussion"

 

[ValleyDJing]

its called a joke dude. calm down, everythings gonna be alright.

everything's gonna be alright.:crackup: I'm using that from now on whenever somebody gets their panies all bunched up! :crackup: