"He only wants one thing from you."

[MrLuvr]

I have seen this advice given by many people to a younger girl that might be interested in dating an older man.

The theory seems to be that an older man for example, a 45 year old man, is only interested in a 20 year old for one thing. i.e. he only wants her body. What else could he possibly want from you?!

I keep seeing this advice being given over and over again to younger women. Stay away from him. He is only after one thing.

My answer is SO What?! Here is a news flash. Most 20 year old guys are after girls for just one thing as well! They hardly want a relationship.

And the assumption is that the 20 year old girl does not want the same thing from the older guy. Why the assumption? Maybe all she wants is a physical relationship as well? Why can't girls also be with a guy for the same "one thing". We know they enjoy it as much as we do!

Either way, I find this ridiculous advice.

 

[MrLuvr]

Why was this moved?

Sorry, but this is a "Mature Man" topic.....

 

[Obsidian]

and if he didn't want that one thing, he would be making friends with GUYS (who are logical and less flaky) instead of wasting time with immature young ladies. Some people just need to get a clue about what gender roles and relationships are all about.

 

[Raikojo17]

of course they do.

what else is there to get from such women? not much.

 

[backbreaker]

"I don't want one thing... I like back massages too"

 

[DJDamage]

I keep seeing this advice being given over and over again to younger women. Stay away from him. He is only after one thing.

Advice means sh1t anyway to most young chickies now a days.

If a woman makes up her mind to sleep with someone there is little anyone can do in this world that can stop her, especially with words.

Only low-medium interest girls will listen to this advice.

 

[backbreaker]

truer words have never been spoken

if a woman likes you, there is very little any one can do to prevent her from sleeping with you

if a woman doesn't like you, there is very little anyone can do to make her sleep with you

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Chickspeak: "He only wants one thing from you"

English Translation: "I really wish he only wanted that same one thing from me, so I'll put your feminine virtue in question to make you wonder if you're being a slut if you do bang him while I compete for his attention and hope he sees you as a prude."

More or less, local dialects may vary.