"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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He got rejected and now he is buying her gifts!!

Solomon

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I was talking to a friend yesterday, this guy has been in the "community" for two years, he prefers to meet women at the day time. Anyway he went to the mall and met "the hottest chick he ever saw" at some store, told her "your the hottest chick I've ever seen, we gotta go out" got rejected this is the convo that took place between him and I yesterday

Roadie: "So Solo, her birthday is on thrusday and I got her a present"
Solo: aww you what? :confused:
Roadie: Yeah man, I went to the store and dropped it off and told her not to open it until her birthday, know what I got her?
Solo: awww a gift card?
Roadie: Naw man, I got her a graphic novel dude, and it's not a comic if you know what i mean, its a book about girls sucking**** and riding **** and it's written by a girl dude
Solo::eek: :confused::crackup: :crackup: (I literally laugh out loud)
Roadie: yeah man I don't give a F, she reads it she will become hot, and think of me
Solo::confused:​
I wish I was kidding, I just had to share this story

*sigh*
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donjuanapprentice01

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My god man, you made me fall out of my chair in laughter! That is the craziest, creepiest but yet funniest thing I have ever heard!
 

Hughman

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If he plans on never seeing her again, or any of her friends, then I give the man props. Sometimes it's good to give your ego a little propping up.

If he ever plan on tapping any of her friends, he's 99% stuffed. Or if mad confident, it'll be an awesome move. Chances are though he isn't, is he? Wouldn't have been rejected otherwise.
 

Kal0051

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next time you hear from him he'll probably be telling you about a restraining order, lol. That's pretty creepy to give to a girl that you don't know and who rejected you.
 

omkara

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Solomon said:
Anyway he went to the mall and met "the hottest chick he ever saw" at some store, told her "your the hottest chick I've ever seen, we gotta go out" got rejected
wow I'm surprised that didn't work. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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pjtheman

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LOL, props to him for having the balls to do that
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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As for that fine line between courage and stupidity, he's on the wrong side of the fence.
 
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