"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hb9 dating site response neded....

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peacock

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ok guys, i e-mailed this hb9 (on dating site) a couple of days ago with the opener:

"Hi. Saw your profile and was wondering if you were as cool as you are beautiful. Message me back."

She has now come back with:

Thank you,... and in answer to your question; i hope so '-)

what are your suggestions on the next line?

peacock
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reyalp

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Ideally, you'll be as experienced with women offline as you are online, so this won't be a problem.


Honestly, some people here might rip you a new one for posting such a question. Don't take offense to them, they're just tired of dealing with n00bs.


As for a response.....play that scenario out in your head, except face-to-face with her. What would you say next?
 
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Thank you,... and in answer to your question; i hope so '-)
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"Well, we both know you could very well be lying. Let's meet up and I'll see if you really are cool or not."

-Damian
 
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