"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hb9 dating site response neded....

peacock

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ok guys, i e-mailed this hb9 (on dating site) a couple of days ago with the opener:

"Hi. Saw your profile and was wondering if you were as cool as you are beautiful. Message me back."

She has now come back with:

Thank you,... and in answer to your question; i hope so '-)

what are your suggestions on the next line?

peacock
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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reyalp

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Ideally, you'll be as experienced with women offline as you are online, so this won't be a problem.


Honestly, some people here might rip you a new one for posting such a question. Don't take offense to them, they're just tired of dealing with n00bs.


As for a response.....play that scenario out in your head, except face-to-face with her. What would you say next?
 

Damian

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Thank you,... and in answer to your question; i hope so '-)
"Well, we both know you could very well be lying. Let's meet up and I'll see if you really are cool or not."

-Damian
 
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