"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hb9 dating site response neded....

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peacock

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ok guys, i e-mailed this hb9 (on dating site) a couple of days ago with the opener:

"Hi. Saw your profile and was wondering if you were as cool as you are beautiful. Message me back."

She has now come back with:

Thank you,... and in answer to your question; i hope so '-)

what are your suggestions on the next line?

peacock
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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reyalp

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Ideally, you'll be as experienced with women offline as you are online, so this won't be a problem.


Honestly, some people here might rip you a new one for posting such a question. Don't take offense to them, they're just tired of dealing with n00bs.


As for a response.....play that scenario out in your head, except face-to-face with her. What would you say next?
 
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Damian

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Thank you,... and in answer to your question; i hope so '-)
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"Well, we both know you could very well be lying. Let's meet up and I'll see if you really are cool or not."

-Damian
 
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