"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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HB9 48 year old just replied. Wants me to take the Briggs-Myers personality test

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just take the damn test. It takes literally 5 minutes.
I took it before. It can be very insightful.
And report back to us what you get.
I glanced through all these conversation and thought at some point you might have took it and posted it here.
But no. It's like 10 pages of conversations that goes nowhere.
Just take it and tell us what you got?
I took it and was somewhat similar to her. She is open to meeting. The 38 year old nurse wants to meet to. Which one would you go for?
 

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I took it and was somewhat similar to her. She is open to meeting. The 38 year old nurse wants to meet to. Which one would you go for?
I don't remember reading about a 38 year old nurse.
But I would date them both and see which one you like better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't remember reading about a 38 year old nurse.
But I would date them both and see which one you like better.
Yea that one that's 60 miles away, remember? This 48 year old MILF who knows how that will go. I hope to meet her next week. Trying to figure her out with this personality stuff. She seems really introvert she told me and she is an 8th grade teacher! I wondering if this could possibly be a decent chance of a lay. She wants guys 45-55 she listed on her profile so maybe she wants some.
 

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I agree, this thread has gone past the limit of being relevant and having any useful purpose…
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