Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
#6 or #7 now? I lost track.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why are you here then? What are you trying to prove?? People have constantly told you that you are full of it and time and time again you fight back. No one cares about your success, everyone is looking for their own!! that is the whole purpose of this site!! You want people to praise you, that is why you are here.
Watch the Beatiful Mind.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
check it out this is just my average booty call girl, i mean i got waaay better on line up and this one HB11.5 i think i'm gonna make her my g/fOriginally posted by Lost In Translation
you also said while you are currently in sydney that you had the equipment to SCAN
you could SCAN a photo
you are on holidays but you got 24/7 net access ???
what hotel is letting you do this ?
the police report where the dude with the empty shot gun gave you his empty gun cause you are like steven seagal
why not scan the police report like you promised because you have the equipment in sydney to do that and upload it to the net so we can see it
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.