Whatever floats your boat, just do it sooner rather than laterIf know one is around to listen but her and I, who knows what she has in mind. Agreed?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Whatever floats your boat, just do it sooner rather than laterIf know one is around to listen but her and I, who knows what she has in mind. Agreed?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dude stop posting in this thread unless it's to update us on how the date went.I see what you guys are saying. At the end of the day even if I get rejected she is definitely showing strong interest. I did have a thought. I remember being told things are rocky with her boyfriend but she still just signed a lease with him..so if I ask her out in front of other co workers she might be concerned with one of them ratting her out. (her boyfriend goes to the gym that she works at) So I think I might have to wait until she is alone at the desk or when I catch her by herself. That way I will get a true answer on where she is at. If know one is around to listen but her and I, who knows what she has in mind. Agreed?
I also agree with shutting my mouth about a girl and not telling other guys. I have been c*ck blocked before. My boss is cool though, older married guy. I asked him on the DL he did say she lives with him.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
In all honesty you are going way too slowly here....find out now if she wants to do something with you. Take her out already, escalate, have a great time, have drinks and make a bold move. Then you'll know if she "really likes" you.Ok so it's been about two weeks and I almost forgot about this Gym broad until today. I was getting a protein shake this morning and boom she was working at the front desk. She called me over and we had a 5 minute conversation about her traveling abroad to teach Yoga for two weeks etc. I flirted a bit, asked for her number. She handed me a piece of paper with her full name and phone number.
It was a real smooth transition.
She 100% has, and lives with a boyfriend. Thoughts on when I should hit her up to execute?? I honestly have never approached a chick that lived with a boyfriend so opinions would be great. Thanks bros!
Just because she has a live in boyfriend doesn't mean she is exclusive. My current gf had a live in boyfriend when we first met. It wasn't serious and he was pretty afc with her. So I knew she was looking. Once we started getting serious guess what she broke her leasd with him and moved out. Funny isn't it. However girls in relatioship will be more a little more difficult then single chicks. You'tr not just trying woo her but also getting past her guilt with cheating even if she doesnt like the guy.
I second that. There are women who use that approach ( live in bf or husband who pays bill and emotional support ) and have boyfriends outside the house for fun and just sex. You won't be expected to do much but hang out and hook up, the bf or husband takes care of them and supports them financially and emotionally.Dont you think she may do that to you as well? if thats the way she operates..? Maybe you just dont give a ****? lol.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.