Whatever floats your boat, just do it sooner rather than later
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
HB8 that works at the gym showing interest?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
Dude stop posting in this thread unless it's to update us on how the date went.
I'm serious...next f*cking post from you better be "Well I asked her out and she said yes/no".
SuckItUp
Senior Don Juan
Never think about it just do it. For the future anytime you see a girl you find attractive just approach. The longer you wait the faster your chances diminish and you are also devoting time to a girl that could be spent on something else that is of greater benefit.
Guys think getting shut is bad thing but it actually is a way of finding someone more quickly.
Guys think getting shut is bad thing but it actually is a way of finding someone more quickly.
spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
Ok so it's been about two weeks and I almost forgot about this Gym broad until today. I was getting a protein shake this morning and boom she was working at the front desk. She called me over and we had a 5 minute conversation about her traveling abroad to teach Yoga for two weeks etc. I flirted a bit, asked for her number. She handed me a piece of paper with her full name and phone number.
It was a real smooth transition.
She 100% has, and lives with a boyfriend. Thoughts on when I should hit her up to execute?? I honestly have never approached a chick that lived with a boyfriend so opinions would be great. Thanks bros!
It was a real smooth transition.
She 100% has, and lives with a boyfriend. Thoughts on when I should hit her up to execute?? I honestly have never approached a chick that lived with a boyfriend so opinions would be great. Thanks bros!
Speculator E
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Just because she has a live in boyfriend doesn't mean she is exclusive. My current gf had a live in boyfriend when we first met. It wasn't serious and he was pretty afc with her. So I knew she was looking. Once we started getting serious guess what she broke her leasd with him and moved out. Funny isn't it. However girls in relatioship will be more a little more difficult then single chicks. You'tr not just trying woo her but also getting past her guilt with cheating even if she doesnt like the guy.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
In all honesty you are going way too slowly here....find out now if she wants to do something with you. Take her out already, escalate, have a great time, have drinks and make a bold move. Then you'll know if she "really likes" you.
Dont you think she may do that to you as well? if thats the way she operates..? Maybe you just dont give a ****? lol.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I second that. There are women who use that approach ( live in bf or husband who pays bill and emotional support ) and have boyfriends outside the house for fun and just sex. You won't be expected to do much but hang out and hook up, the bf or husband takes care of them and supports them financially and emotionally.
dutchmaster
Senior Don Juan
I'm going to blast you with some realism bro. She's just an attention wh0re and you keep feeding her. she lives with her bf like really.. u think shes gonna risk it to bang an average joe in a gym full of rich guys?
How many more attractive men than you do you think she sees a day in there?
how many does she talk to?
how many come running like puppies whenever she wants attention?
shes just getting ego strokes cuz shes bored at work. stop wasting your time and bang one of those hot moms or chicks who work out there instead
a front desk gym girl is like the most stereotypical attention wh0re job out there
How many more attractive men than you do you think she sees a day in there?
how many does she talk to?
how many come running like puppies whenever she wants attention?
shes just getting ego strokes cuz shes bored at work. stop wasting your time and bang one of those hot moms or chicks who work out there instead
a front desk gym girl is like the most stereotypical attention wh0re job out there
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.