"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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pyros said:
P.S.
this girl is pretty weird. She's done coach surfing several times on her own. She's been living in Morroco for six months alone. She's came to my country without knowing anybody, and now she said she's going to Thailand with a male friend of her, that, her words:
'is a good guy friend, perfect to travel with'

and she does not feel any attachment to her home. And she's very intelligent.
I'm all about persistence, but man this seems like disrespect. She comes to the date tired as hell. Not sure if she was giving you IOI's or signs that she was actually having a good time. She closes with a hug. THEN tells you she is traveling with some other guy. (probably same guy from the moving) But what's worse, you are still giving her positive comments like all these negative signs should be rewarded.

You are starting to smell of oneitis. You definitely need to see other women in the meantime. You don't have to drop her, but if she drops you I can tell you won't take it very well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I just want to update this thread:

About this silly chick...well, we had our fifth date which was dull as fvck, she was tired, and we did not have much fun. I did not even try to kiss her.

Then I decided to forget about her.
Well...after a couple of weeks she texted me to ask me if I wanted to go to dance salsa, but I said I couldn't.

The thing is...SHE TEXTED ME TO GO DANCING SIX TIMES IN A TWO MONTH INTERVAL, and I told her everytime some excuse cause I did not want to go out with her anymore!!!

Also, two years later I bumped into her in a restaurant. She was uglier...lol, but she said I looked cute, ha!
She had a bf, I wished her good luck, and that was it!

Now that I think about it, she was not that hot LMAO...the problem was that I was too inexperienced.

If it happened to me now I would have nexted her by date three if we were not escalating sexually in each date. lol.
 
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