Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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HB8/9 is in a bad state - asks what I think.

SoSuaveDude

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tomato said:
Where is the stress? Just a few unanwered texts! - no big deal

Any advice on dealing w buyers remorse?
dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SoSuaveDude said:
dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
Its buyers remorse - I had sex with her too much - I basically abused my seduation and made the candle burn too brightly. I had sex with her 5 times with hardly any investment I think it makes sense there would be some confusion i got the whole "are you only interested int eh sex".

I think attraction is ok its that I didnt do enough COMFORT with her - I'm just wondering how to do that now.....she'll get back to me - lets think what then
 
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