"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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HB8/9 is in a bad state - asks what I think.

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tomato said:
Where is the stress? Just a few unanwered texts! - no big deal

Any advice on dealing w buyers remorse?
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dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
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Its buyers remorse - I had sex with her too much - I basically abused my seduation and made the candle burn too brightly. I had sex with her 5 times with hardly any investment I think it makes sense there would be some confusion i got the whole "are you only interested int eh sex".

I think attraction is ok its that I didnt do enough COMFORT with her - I'm just wondering how to do that now.....she'll get back to me - lets think what then
 
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