"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB8/9 is in a bad state - asks what I think.

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SoSuaveDude

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tomato said:
Where is the stress? Just a few unanwered texts! - no big deal

Any advice on dealing w buyers remorse?
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dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
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Its buyers remorse - I had sex with her too much - I basically abused my seduation and made the candle burn too brightly. I had sex with her 5 times with hardly any investment I think it makes sense there would be some confusion i got the whole "are you only interested int eh sex".

I think attraction is ok its that I didnt do enough COMFORT with her - I'm just wondering how to do that now.....she'll get back to me - lets think what then
 
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