"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HB8/9 is in a bad state - asks what I think.

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tomato said:
Where is the stress? Just a few unanwered texts! - no big deal

Any advice on dealing w buyers remorse?
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dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SoSuaveDude said:
dude that's a pretty big deal. she's disrespecting you, and either playing games or totally not interested. Meanwhile you're over-analyzing, and making multiple threads about this headcase. Think about it
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Its buyers remorse - I had sex with her too much - I basically abused my seduation and made the candle burn too brightly. I had sex with her 5 times with hardly any investment I think it makes sense there would be some confusion i got the whole "are you only interested int eh sex".

I think attraction is ok its that I didnt do enough COMFORT with her - I'm just wondering how to do that now.....she'll get back to me - lets think what then
 
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