Suave88
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Biggoal, You are done with her.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
HB7.5 41 yr old MILF quickly gives me her number and that.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Suave88
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Look biggoal, you can give it try. Think about it. She picked up the phone call after a week. You can ask her out, but if a woman tells me she just wants to be friends, then, it is over.
Some women will chant "friends first, friends first" but that only means that they want to know you first. A woman who is interested in you will never refer or call you as you are "my friend" or will introduce you to others as "this is biggoal, my friend".....
One thing is being indirect and chant "friends first" when she is asked by someone other than you, and another thing is to call you "you are my friend.
corrector
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Lol! ...and they say post-wall women don't get as much validation or attention. We are doomed. Thanks for fixing things up for the rest of us lot. No wonder why women are so pedistalized like goddesses rather than human beings.
Anyway, back to what this thread originally was for. I really think she did have a family issue coming up like she claimed. I say that because she still texts me. I checked up briefly to see how things were going yesterday and she said she's hanging in there and she says I'm a sweatheart. Then this morning she sent a smiley face to me. Then tonight after I got home from my part time night job she sent me a selfie of herself while I was eating dinner. She likes to send pics.
I mean, obviously there is interest on her end if she's sending me selfies unsolicited without me asking out of the blue like she did again tonight. So I really think she is having a serious family issue then and she's trying to keep me interested in her. Obviously she'd ghost me if she wasn't interested in me. I'm not bugging her though. In a few days I'll check in with her. I'm guessing it's a death in the family or serious illness with one of her parents in AL where she's from. Oh and she turned 42 last week.
I mean, obviously there is interest on her end if she's sending me selfies unsolicited without me asking out of the blue like she did again tonight. So I really think she is having a serious family issue then and she's trying to keep me interested in her. Obviously she'd ghost me if she wasn't interested in me. I'm not bugging her though. In a few days I'll check in with her. I'm guessing it's a death in the family or serious illness with one of her parents in AL where she's from. Oh and she turned 42 last week.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
mirror her and nothing more until she starts escalating
emoji for emoji
selfie for selfie
"you are a sweetheart" - "thanks"
emoji for emoji
selfie for selfie
"you are a sweetheart" - "thanks"
why?
She likes emojis. I notice some women really GIFS and emojis. Yea, the cute selfie the other day she sent me that night after I sent her a cute good morning Gif.
She like sending selfies and that. What would be the purpose of sending selfies a lot? She just seeking validation?
MrWood
Master Don Juan
no, but it does depend on how you are reacting... its a test, of sorts
Yea. Usually I compliment her. I mean, not perved out over the top but I compliment here like she had a nice smile in one, and the other I said she looked lovely and can't wait to hangout. I mean hints to tell her I think she's pretty but not that I'm a pervert going for all looks.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
next selfie she sends, read it (WhatsApp?) and dont respond.
You need to put the impetus on her.
her: "you stopped responding"
you: "you just keep sending selfies"
you:"if you want to meet, let me know... its your choice, right?"
You need to put the impetus on her.
her: "you stopped responding"
you: "you just keep sending selfies"
you:"if you want to meet, let me know... its your choice, right?"
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.