"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey guys, I picked up a HB10 at the pub the other night (go me :)) and am just looking for some mental tips to stop me putting this girl on a pedastal, because in all honesty this girl is stunning and by far the hottest i've ever picked up. I really don't want to fall into oneitis and start acting like a desperate AFC with this one. So yeah if anyone has some advice for me it would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Use the pride you got from attaining her interest to go after some HB 8s and 9s so that you have other women to focus on... the charisma you get from having these other women will make the HB10 more attracted to you.
 
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+1 Don Gordon! :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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An HB10 is in the eye of the beholder. Its the woman whom ur prolly most attracted to. So there not being a HB10 Mr. uk...are u sure? There hasn't been one woman who u look at that u feel a huge surge of attraction for? Even more so than a 9.5 u've seen?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you don't want to put her on a pedastal then don't. If you don't want to fall into the oneitis pit then don't. If you don't want to become desperate and all AFC then don't.

Do what you do and don't analyze every second of the relationship.

Be Cool and don't worry about messing anything up because that's when you usually do.
 
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To get to the actual point of the thread.. I say get six to ten more girls on the line in the next few days..

If you really want her chasing you (btw)..Treat her as if she is on a probationary period in your life.

Be busy every night but one or two a week (for starters) .. then do something with her. Go have FUN without her.. those other girls will come easily.

Text her about cool s*** you're doing.

"I'm streaking at the Rockies game in 10..9..8..7.."

or my favorite:

"Under any circumstances, do NOT CALL ME tonight.."

They'll always call. ;)

- This will make it easy not to go into oneitis at first and will get her more attracted to you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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