"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys, I picked up a HB10 at the pub the other night (go me :)) and am just looking for some mental tips to stop me putting this girl on a pedastal, because in all honesty this girl is stunning and by far the hottest i've ever picked up. I really don't want to fall into oneitis and start acting like a desperate AFC with this one. So yeah if anyone has some advice for me it would be appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Use the pride you got from attaining her interest to go after some HB 8s and 9s so that you have other women to focus on... the charisma you get from having these other women will make the HB10 more attracted to you.
 
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+1 Don Gordon! :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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An HB10 is in the eye of the beholder. Its the woman whom ur prolly most attracted to. So there not being a HB10 Mr. uk...are u sure? There hasn't been one woman who u look at that u feel a huge surge of attraction for? Even more so than a 9.5 u've seen?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you don't want to put her on a pedastal then don't. If you don't want to fall into the oneitis pit then don't. If you don't want to become desperate and all AFC then don't.

Do what you do and don't analyze every second of the relationship.

Be Cool and don't worry about messing anything up because that's when you usually do.
 
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To get to the actual point of the thread.. I say get six to ten more girls on the line in the next few days..

If you really want her chasing you (btw)..Treat her as if she is on a probationary period in your life.

Be busy every night but one or two a week (for starters) .. then do something with her. Go have FUN without her.. those other girls will come easily.

Text her about cool s*** you're doing.

"I'm streaking at the Rockies game in 10..9..8..7.."

or my favorite:

"Under any circumstances, do NOT CALL ME tonight.."

They'll always call. ;)

- This will make it easy not to go into oneitis at first and will get her more attracted to you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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