"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hey guys, I picked up a HB10 at the pub the other night (go me :)) and am just looking for some mental tips to stop me putting this girl on a pedastal, because in all honesty this girl is stunning and by far the hottest i've ever picked up. I really don't want to fall into oneitis and start acting like a desperate AFC with this one. So yeah if anyone has some advice for me it would be appreciated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Use the pride you got from attaining her interest to go after some HB 8s and 9s so that you have other women to focus on... the charisma you get from having these other women will make the HB10 more attracted to you.
 
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+1 Don Gordon! :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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An HB10 is in the eye of the beholder. Its the woman whom ur prolly most attracted to. So there not being a HB10 Mr. uk...are u sure? There hasn't been one woman who u look at that u feel a huge surge of attraction for? Even more so than a 9.5 u've seen?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you don't want to put her on a pedastal then don't. If you don't want to fall into the oneitis pit then don't. If you don't want to become desperate and all AFC then don't.

Do what you do and don't analyze every second of the relationship.

Be Cool and don't worry about messing anything up because that's when you usually do.
 
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To get to the actual point of the thread.. I say get six to ten more girls on the line in the next few days..

If you really want her chasing you (btw)..Treat her as if she is on a probationary period in your life.

Be busy every night but one or two a week (for starters) .. then do something with her. Go have FUN without her.. those other girls will come easily.

Text her about cool s*** you're doing.

"I'm streaking at the Rockies game in 10..9..8..7.."

or my favorite:

"Under any circumstances, do NOT CALL ME tonight.."

They'll always call. ;)

- This will make it easy not to go into oneitis at first and will get her more attracted to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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