"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HB in Gym class. Fellow DJs -- Help me out!

Fitch

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Its me... again! There is this HB in my gym class!!! 8.1 rating!! I caught a couple of glances at me. I held it for about 2 seconds... then she broke off. Since it is technically the first day of school, due to the new term, we had new floor seating arrangements. Since my last name begins with a "B" I was called up early and I ended up sitting 6 feet away from her.

I was Fvcking NERVOUS! I took a quick glance at her and turned away. I think she did too. She sits on the next row, 3 people ahead. I saw her thong :D haha I am perverted sometimes... thats what happens when you vow not to mastrubate... (3 days and counting).

I can't read her. She seems to show interest... then not. One interesting thing I have observed. When the teacher called her up to her be seating in her newly assignment floor seating... He, the teacher says, "Julie," and points to the floor seat. She seems to be nervous and turned slightly red -- note that I was looking at her when the teacher mentioned her name... i dont know her...nor her name.

The bell rang, she was one of the first people to leave the gym.

How do I get her attention? How do I approach her? etc..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fitch

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I need some advice for tomorrow! I need to act -- as soon as possible. Any advice fellow DJs?
 

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ok grab your balls and go up to her. say this

"Hi (dramatic pause) my name is _________"

if she doesn't introduce herself then follow up asking her name. then just shoot the **** with her. after little bit yoiu can work up to some kino and then you're off to the races.
 

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Well, since this is only the 2nd day youve been in the class and you think she's shy she might be slighty surprised(which is a good thing) sweep her over if you can think of somtin to say(DONT BE NERVOUS fk it yo. run your thing boy). Now i am new to this site and it's methods. So, really tryin to learn and help. FITCH you got AIM? Seems like we are kinda similiar and different we could learn from each other.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by kiz
ok grab your balls and go up to her. say this

"Hi (dramatic pause) my name is _________"

if she doesn't introduce herself then follow up asking her name. then just shoot the **** with her. after little bit yoiu can work up to some kino and then you're off to the races.
Would have never thought of that :D

Hehe, thanks. But the trick is -- grabing my balls! (Too heavy, if you know what I mean).

Fvck it. I shall give it a shot. Nothing to lose -- only gain (experience or head or maybe a LTR :D )
 

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yea man i know what you mean but you just gotta say what the fvck sometimes and think about how ****ty you'll feel if you don't talk to her.
 

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If something funny or out-of-the-ordinary happens, comment on that. It doesn't have to be in class, it could be around the school. Better yet, make something funny happen. Soften-up your fears by talking to others (especially other girls) in the class, and then work your way around to her. Don't talk about the very same thing to everyone in the class though. Don't wait too long to talk to her and be her friend because another guy (or girl :) ) has already noticed her.
 

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True, but nothing 'out of the ordinary' happens... that is the problem -- nothing to talk about -- that would interest her. I am fresh out of ideas. The approach will be hard but possible. But going from there is tedious.
 

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She fvcking transfered gym classes. I even saw her in the hallway before gym -- as if by fate, I simply smilied at her -- awkwardly -- she acknowledge.. do not remember what she did. She just stared. Meh.. its a lil fuzzy... :eek:

And that is that.

Lesson Learned... Take action!

Who knows... maybe I'll see her tomorrow!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You worry too much. Relax and have fun.
 

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You need to get some balls too
 

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Originally posted by souporman
wow dude.. make a move.. stop coming here.
Your a fvcking moron. She transfered. What move? You d1ck...

I have balls, I know what to do now... I just need the oppurtunity.
 
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