"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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HB in Gym class. Fellow DJs -- Help me out!

Fitch

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Its me... again! There is this HB in my gym class!!! 8.1 rating!! I caught a couple of glances at me. I held it for about 2 seconds... then she broke off. Since it is technically the first day of school, due to the new term, we had new floor seating arrangements. Since my last name begins with a "B" I was called up early and I ended up sitting 6 feet away from her.

I was Fvcking NERVOUS! I took a quick glance at her and turned away. I think she did too. She sits on the next row, 3 people ahead. I saw her thong :D haha I am perverted sometimes... thats what happens when you vow not to mastrubate... (3 days and counting).

I can't read her. She seems to show interest... then not. One interesting thing I have observed. When the teacher called her up to her be seating in her newly assignment floor seating... He, the teacher says, "Julie," and points to the floor seat. She seems to be nervous and turned slightly red -- note that I was looking at her when the teacher mentioned her name... i dont know her...nor her name.

The bell rang, she was one of the first people to leave the gym.

How do I get her attention? How do I approach her? etc..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fitch

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I need some advice for tomorrow! I need to act -- as soon as possible. Any advice fellow DJs?
 

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ok grab your balls and go up to her. say this

"Hi (dramatic pause) my name is _________"

if she doesn't introduce herself then follow up asking her name. then just shoot the **** with her. after little bit yoiu can work up to some kino and then you're off to the races.
 

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Well, since this is only the 2nd day youve been in the class and you think she's shy she might be slighty surprised(which is a good thing) sweep her over if you can think of somtin to say(DONT BE NERVOUS fk it yo. run your thing boy). Now i am new to this site and it's methods. So, really tryin to learn and help. FITCH you got AIM? Seems like we are kinda similiar and different we could learn from each other.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by kiz
ok grab your balls and go up to her. say this

"Hi (dramatic pause) my name is _________"

if she doesn't introduce herself then follow up asking her name. then just shoot the **** with her. after little bit yoiu can work up to some kino and then you're off to the races.
Would have never thought of that :D

Hehe, thanks. But the trick is -- grabing my balls! (Too heavy, if you know what I mean).

Fvck it. I shall give it a shot. Nothing to lose -- only gain (experience or head or maybe a LTR :D )
 

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yea man i know what you mean but you just gotta say what the fvck sometimes and think about how ****ty you'll feel if you don't talk to her.
 

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If something funny or out-of-the-ordinary happens, comment on that. It doesn't have to be in class, it could be around the school. Better yet, make something funny happen. Soften-up your fears by talking to others (especially other girls) in the class, and then work your way around to her. Don't talk about the very same thing to everyone in the class though. Don't wait too long to talk to her and be her friend because another guy (or girl :) ) has already noticed her.
 

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True, but nothing 'out of the ordinary' happens... that is the problem -- nothing to talk about -- that would interest her. I am fresh out of ideas. The approach will be hard but possible. But going from there is tedious.
 

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She fvcking transfered gym classes. I even saw her in the hallway before gym -- as if by fate, I simply smilied at her -- awkwardly -- she acknowledge.. do not remember what she did. She just stared. Meh.. its a lil fuzzy... :eek:

And that is that.

Lesson Learned... Take action!

Who knows... maybe I'll see her tomorrow!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You worry too much. Relax and have fun.
 

oakraiderz2

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You need to get some balls too
 

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Originally posted by souporman
wow dude.. make a move.. stop coming here.
Your a fvcking moron. She transfered. What move? You d1ck...

I have balls, I know what to do now... I just need the oppurtunity.
 
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