Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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HB in Gym class. Fellow DJs -- Help me out!

Fitch

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Its me... again! There is this HB in my gym class!!! 8.1 rating!! I caught a couple of glances at me. I held it for about 2 seconds... then she broke off. Since it is technically the first day of school, due to the new term, we had new floor seating arrangements. Since my last name begins with a "B" I was called up early and I ended up sitting 6 feet away from her.

I was Fvcking NERVOUS! I took a quick glance at her and turned away. I think she did too. She sits on the next row, 3 people ahead. I saw her thong :D haha I am perverted sometimes... thats what happens when you vow not to mastrubate... (3 days and counting).

I can't read her. She seems to show interest... then not. One interesting thing I have observed. When the teacher called her up to her be seating in her newly assignment floor seating... He, the teacher says, "Julie," and points to the floor seat. She seems to be nervous and turned slightly red -- note that I was looking at her when the teacher mentioned her name... i dont know her...nor her name.

The bell rang, she was one of the first people to leave the gym.

How do I get her attention? How do I approach her? etc..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Fitch

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I need some advice for tomorrow! I need to act -- as soon as possible. Any advice fellow DJs?
 

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ok grab your balls and go up to her. say this

"Hi (dramatic pause) my name is _________"

if she doesn't introduce herself then follow up asking her name. then just shoot the **** with her. after little bit yoiu can work up to some kino and then you're off to the races.
 

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Well, since this is only the 2nd day youve been in the class and you think she's shy she might be slighty surprised(which is a good thing) sweep her over if you can think of somtin to say(DONT BE NERVOUS fk it yo. run your thing boy). Now i am new to this site and it's methods. So, really tryin to learn and help. FITCH you got AIM? Seems like we are kinda similiar and different we could learn from each other.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fitch

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Originally posted by kiz
ok grab your balls and go up to her. say this

"Hi (dramatic pause) my name is _________"

if she doesn't introduce herself then follow up asking her name. then just shoot the **** with her. after little bit yoiu can work up to some kino and then you're off to the races.
Would have never thought of that :D

Hehe, thanks. But the trick is -- grabing my balls! (Too heavy, if you know what I mean).

Fvck it. I shall give it a shot. Nothing to lose -- only gain (experience or head or maybe a LTR :D )
 

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yea man i know what you mean but you just gotta say what the fvck sometimes and think about how ****ty you'll feel if you don't talk to her.
 

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If something funny or out-of-the-ordinary happens, comment on that. It doesn't have to be in class, it could be around the school. Better yet, make something funny happen. Soften-up your fears by talking to others (especially other girls) in the class, and then work your way around to her. Don't talk about the very same thing to everyone in the class though. Don't wait too long to talk to her and be her friend because another guy (or girl :) ) has already noticed her.
 

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True, but nothing 'out of the ordinary' happens... that is the problem -- nothing to talk about -- that would interest her. I am fresh out of ideas. The approach will be hard but possible. But going from there is tedious.
 

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She fvcking transfered gym classes. I even saw her in the hallway before gym -- as if by fate, I simply smilied at her -- awkwardly -- she acknowledge.. do not remember what she did. She just stared. Meh.. its a lil fuzzy... :eek:

And that is that.

Lesson Learned... Take action!

Who knows... maybe I'll see her tomorrow!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You worry too much. Relax and have fun.
 

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You need to get some balls too
 

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Originally posted by souporman
wow dude.. make a move.. stop coming here.
Your a fvcking moron. She transfered. What move? You d1ck...

I have balls, I know what to do now... I just need the oppurtunity.
 
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