“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HB asks me questions she already knows the answer to?

The LadyKiller

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I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet. This week, I have been away on vacation with family. Usually, such a situation is a problem with me and HBs I'm macking, because I don't know how to keep the iron hot, but also don't want to appear desperate.

However, HB 8.5 has texted me 2 times during the week with a question each time - ones I'm sure she already knows the answer to:

1 - She asks if I am around. She knows I am away for the week. Or should, because I brought it up in a convo a few days prior. She was "just curious."

2 - She asks if a particular public figure (who I would know) shares her name. Again, she knows the answer to this because I joked about it last week. A quick Google search also yields the answer.

Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before, so I wanted to see if you had any prior experience with this sorta thing.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before

Actions > Words

Its a good thing shes initiating conversations with you. Girls arent logical when it comes to dating/relationships, so if they feel like talking to a guy it doesnt even have to make sense.

I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet.

This^ is on you.

Shes initiating conversations. Time to make plans and see if she remains interested. "When are you free to grab drinks/dinner next week?" Push to hangout in person....dont get to "know someone" through the phone.
 

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TheException said:
Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before

Actions > Words

Its a good thing shes initiating conversations with you. Girls arent logical when it comes to dating/relationships, so if they feel like talking to a guy it doesnt even have to make sense.

I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet.

This^ is on you.

Shes initiating conversations. Time to make plans and see if she remains interested. "When are you free to grab drinks/dinner next week?" Push to hangout in person....dont get to "know someone" through the phone.
Good stuff. I met HB 8.5 inside of 2 weeks before I left, so it's still at the beginning stages. Chances are I'd have made a move by now if I weren't away for the past week-week and a half. I'd rather take care of this in person than over the phone from many miles away.
 
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