"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB asks me questions she already knows the answer to?

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The LadyKiller

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I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet. This week, I have been away on vacation with family. Usually, such a situation is a problem with me and HBs I'm macking, because I don't know how to keep the iron hot, but also don't want to appear desperate.

However, HB 8.5 has texted me 2 times during the week with a question each time - ones I'm sure she already knows the answer to:

1 - She asks if I am around. She knows I am away for the week. Or should, because I brought it up in a convo a few days prior. She was "just curious."

2 - She asks if a particular public figure (who I would know) shares her name. Again, she knows the answer to this because I joked about it last week. A quick Google search also yields the answer.

Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before, so I wanted to see if you had any prior experience with this sorta thing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before

Actions > Words

Its a good thing shes initiating conversations with you. Girls arent logical when it comes to dating/relationships, so if they feel like talking to a guy it doesnt even have to make sense.

I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet.

This^ is on you.

Shes initiating conversations. Time to make plans and see if she remains interested. "When are you free to grab drinks/dinner next week?" Push to hangout in person....dont get to "know someone" through the phone.
 
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TheException said:
Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before

Actions > Words

Its a good thing shes initiating conversations with you. Girls arent logical when it comes to dating/relationships, so if they feel like talking to a guy it doesnt even have to make sense.

I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet.

This^ is on you.

Shes initiating conversations. Time to make plans and see if she remains interested. "When are you free to grab drinks/dinner next week?" Push to hangout in person....dont get to "know someone" through the phone.
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Good stuff. I met HB 8.5 inside of 2 weeks before I left, so it's still at the beginning stages. Chances are I'd have made a move by now if I weren't away for the past week-week and a half. I'd rather take care of this in person than over the phone from many miles away.
 
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