"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB asks me questions she already knows the answer to?

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The LadyKiller

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I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet. This week, I have been away on vacation with family. Usually, such a situation is a problem with me and HBs I'm macking, because I don't know how to keep the iron hot, but also don't want to appear desperate.

However, HB 8.5 has texted me 2 times during the week with a question each time - ones I'm sure she already knows the answer to:

1 - She asks if I am around. She knows I am away for the week. Or should, because I brought it up in a convo a few days prior. She was "just curious."

2 - She asks if a particular public figure (who I would know) shares her name. Again, she knows the answer to this because I joked about it last week. A quick Google search also yields the answer.

Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before, so I wanted to see if you had any prior experience with this sorta thing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before

Actions > Words

Its a good thing shes initiating conversations with you. Girls arent logical when it comes to dating/relationships, so if they feel like talking to a guy it doesnt even have to make sense.

I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet.

This^ is on you.

Shes initiating conversations. Time to make plans and see if she remains interested. "When are you free to grab drinks/dinner next week?" Push to hangout in person....dont get to "know someone" through the phone.
 
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TheException said:
Either she is interested or wants attention. I've never seen this approach before

Actions > Words

Its a good thing shes initiating conversations with you. Girls arent logical when it comes to dating/relationships, so if they feel like talking to a guy it doesnt even have to make sense.

I have been getting to know a HB 8.5 over the past couple of weeks, although nothing has happened yet.

This^ is on you.

Shes initiating conversations. Time to make plans and see if she remains interested. "When are you free to grab drinks/dinner next week?" Push to hangout in person....dont get to "know someone" through the phone.
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Good stuff. I met HB 8.5 inside of 2 weeks before I left, so it's still at the beginning stages. Chances are I'd have made a move by now if I weren't away for the past week-week and a half. I'd rather take care of this in person than over the phone from many miles away.
 
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