naoi deag se deag
Senior Don Juan
"No, I've never talked to a woman..."
Works for a lot of questions, if you think about it.
Works for a lot of questions, if you think about it.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HB: "Are you a Pickup Artist?"
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DJD. I haven't seen Wedding Crashers, is there community exposure in that film?
Basically, I don't really care that some of the techniques are being spread and that more people are reading them. What worries me is the amount of exposure this is getting in women's groups, Mystery has been profiled in Calendar, Elle, Marie Claire, and more. Style has been on The View. I even heard of either Mystery or Style doing Oprah, which would kill any anonomity for either of the two communities (SoSuave & mASF). Over-exposure doesn't expand the game or bring it to the mainstream, it kills it.
Basically, I don't really care that some of the techniques are being spread and that more people are reading them. What worries me is the amount of exposure this is getting in women's groups, Mystery has been profiled in Calendar, Elle, Marie Claire, and more. Style has been on The View. I even heard of either Mystery or Style doing Oprah, which would kill any anonomity for either of the two communities (SoSuave & mASF). Over-exposure doesn't expand the game or bring it to the mainstream, it kills it.
Dr Box
Don Juan
HAHAHA, I love this narrow minded view some of you guys have......you think this stuff comming into light will kill the whole pick up scene......Idiots, guys have been picking up women for years, and here is a little secret for you.....it doesn't matter if you use a direct or non direct approach.......girls know your hitting on them......shocking I know but true, your job isnt to hide the fact you are trying to pick up on them your job is to remain interesting enough so they want to spend more time with you. If you are worried about getting shot down because some chick saw some interview with style or some other great pua then your game is no way near as strong as what it should be. You go on about being alpha males well this is the time to prove it.......I am not trying to flame anyone or start some big argument but come one guys you should all be above worrying about some tv interview or a book.
Now to the title of this thread, I have been asked that question a couple of times as well as some chick just saying "are trying to pick me up?"
when I get asked if I am a pick up artist I look the girl straight in the eye and say some thing like "yes........so you better be interesting or I am moving on"
The other question "are you trying to pick me up?" I replied "yeah I am.......but lets be honest.......you are having a ball"
I didn't shy away from the question I played with it, the girls loved me cause it conveyed so many good things.....think about it.
Now to the title of this thread, I have been asked that question a couple of times as well as some chick just saying "are trying to pick me up?"
when I get asked if I am a pick up artist I look the girl straight in the eye and say some thing like "yes........so you better be interesting or I am moving on"
The other question "are you trying to pick me up?" I replied "yeah I am.......but lets be honest.......you are having a ball"
I didn't shy away from the question I played with it, the girls loved me cause it conveyed so many good things.....think about it.
catch
Senior Don Juan
woaah, no way man..!
the game has been exposed...!
now come my men, the women are finding out, RUN FOR THE HILLS my fellow dj's... our game has been done for!
nahhhh, don worry about it... women arnt stupid, they know if your trying to game them, if they like it , then theyer cool with it.... with me?
the game has been exposed...!
now come my men, the women are finding out, RUN FOR THE HILLS my fellow dj's... our game has been done for!
nahhhh, don worry about it... women arnt stupid, they know if your trying to game them, if they like it , then theyer cool with it.... with me?
What you guys are missing is that some techniques are overly specific. A woman knowing you are hitting on her is very different from a woman knowing you are using a neg to lower her social value in the circle and that you are moving through such and such rapport stages before you reciprocate AIs, etc. A lot of techniques we use into building rapport lose value if the girls know what they're intended to do. Like I said, the girls who accused me of being a PUA still gave me their numbers, so I'm not that worried. But once the game gets overexposed a lot of our tools will begin to lose power, and that bothers me.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Spoilers alert.
Yes there is one. Both Own Wilson and Vince Vaughn got their ideas of crashing weddings and bedding the women there from a so called pick up artist guru played by Will Ferrell. Its a tounge and cheek fun movie on picking up women at weddings but there are many ideas in that movie that WILL actually work if you plan to sarge in someone's wedding.
RockstarPUA
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Her asking you this is a sh*t test...
Plow through!
Plow through!
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Her: "Are you a pickup artist?"
You: "Whoa! I guess it takes one to know one"
You: "Whoa! I guess it takes one to know one"
SparkleMotion
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HAHAHA!
I love that response.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
everywomanshero
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Techniques
The techniques are not nearly as effective if a woman knows exactly what you're doing and that you just read some book telling you how to do-it.
Even if they know you're a BSer, they want to believe you're somewhat original. Now, even if yo make something new up before long they'll THINK you read about it online even though you didn't.
I don't know how to explain it but it's sad because this stuff really does work. I'm fclosing girls right and left off hotornot. So far none have known anything.
The techniques are not nearly as effective if a woman knows exactly what you're doing and that you just read some book telling you how to do-it.
Even if they know you're a BSer, they want to believe you're somewhat original. Now, even if yo make something new up before long they'll THINK you read about it online even though you didn't.
I don't know how to explain it but it's sad because this stuff really does work. I'm fclosing girls right and left off hotornot. So far none have known anything.
Desdinova
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Agreed. It's just another barrier a woman will put up.
****y/funny is definately the way to go with this.
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: Absolutely! I try different and more artistic ways each day to pick up my dirty socks!
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: How did you know I airbrush pickup trucks for a living?
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: No, I'm a pickle artist. I carve sculptures out of pickles for a living.
catch
Senior Don Juan
****y/funny is definately the way to go with this.
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: Absolutely! I try different and more artistic ways each day to pick up my dirty socks!
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: How did you know I airbrush pickup trucks for a living?
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: No, I'm a pickle artist. I carve sculptures out of pickles for a living.
ha ha ha,:crackup: pickle artist ha ha ha
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: Absolutely! I try different and more artistic ways each day to pick up my dirty socks!
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: How did you know I airbrush pickup trucks for a living?
Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: No, I'm a pickle artist. I carve sculptures out of pickles for a living.
ha ha ha,:crackup: pickle artist ha ha ha
Sargeholic
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I had a recent lay in the last couple weeks where during the debrief, she asked me if I had ever heard of Mystery. I played dumb but I think she knew.
She had read about him in a magazine, and since I was peacocked when I met her and I used some of his tactics, she knew. Didn't stop me from rocking the sarge and closing it on Day2, but it was weird nonetheless.
She had read about him in a magazine, and since I was peacocked when I met her and I used some of his tactics, she knew. Didn't stop me from rocking the sarge and closing it on Day2, but it was weird nonetheless.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.