"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HB: "Are you a Pickup Artist?"

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJD. I haven't seen Wedding Crashers, is there community exposure in that film?


Basically, I don't really care that some of the techniques are being spread and that more people are reading them. What worries me is the amount of exposure this is getting in women's groups, Mystery has been profiled in Calendar, Elle, Marie Claire, and more. Style has been on The View. I even heard of either Mystery or Style doing Oprah, which would kill any anonomity for either of the two communities (SoSuave & mASF). Over-exposure doesn't expand the game or bring it to the mainstream, it kills it.
 

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HAHAHA, I love this narrow minded view some of you guys have......you think this stuff comming into light will kill the whole pick up scene......Idiots, guys have been picking up women for years, and here is a little secret for you.....it doesn't matter if you use a direct or non direct approach.......girls know your hitting on them......shocking I know but true, your job isnt to hide the fact you are trying to pick up on them your job is to remain interesting enough so they want to spend more time with you. If you are worried about getting shot down because some chick saw some interview with style or some other great pua then your game is no way near as strong as what it should be. You go on about being alpha males well this is the time to prove it.......I am not trying to flame anyone or start some big argument but come one guys you should all be above worrying about some tv interview or a book.
Now to the title of this thread, I have been asked that question a couple of times as well as some chick just saying "are trying to pick me up?"
when I get asked if I am a pick up artist I look the girl straight in the eye and say some thing like "yes........so you better be interesting or I am moving on"
The other question "are you trying to pick me up?" I replied "yeah I am.......but lets be honest.......you are having a ball"
I didn't shy away from the question I played with it, the girls loved me cause it conveyed so many good things.....think about it.
 

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woaah, no way man..!

the game has been exposed...!

now come my men, the women are finding out, RUN FOR THE HILLS my fellow dj's... our game has been done for!

nahhhh, don worry about it... women arnt stupid, they know if your trying to game them, if they like it , then theyer cool with it.... with me?;)
 

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What you guys are missing is that some techniques are overly specific. A woman knowing you are hitting on her is very different from a woman knowing you are using a neg to lower her social value in the circle and that you are moving through such and such rapport stages before you reciprocate AIs, etc. A lot of techniques we use into building rapport lose value if the girls know what they're intended to do. Like I said, the girls who accused me of being a PUA still gave me their numbers, so I'm not that worried. But once the game gets overexposed a lot of our tools will begin to lose power, and that bothers me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by MVPlaya
DJD. I haven't seen Wedding Crashers, is there community exposure in that film?
Spoilers alert.

Yes there is one. Both Own Wilson and Vince Vaughn got their ideas of crashing weddings and bedding the women there from a so called pick up artist guru played by Will Ferrell. Its a tounge and cheek fun movie on picking up women at weddings but there are many ideas in that movie that WILL actually work if you plan to sarge in someone's wedding.
 

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IHaha.

'm watching it right now, and all I have to say is, the girl in the proper hat just eye-****ed the **** out of me.
 

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Originally posted by Marlimus
if a girl was to ask me that, I would say
"NO I'm not a PUA. I'm a pimp. I just left my fur coat and gold chains at home. As a matter or fact, why don't you work the corner of main and abercrombie tonight? I'll have a customer pick you up."
HAHAHA!

I love that response.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Techniques

The techniques are not nearly as effective if a woman knows exactly what you're doing and that you just read some book telling you how to do-it.

Even if they know you're a BSer, they want to believe you're somewhat original. Now, even if yo make something new up before long they'll THINK you read about it online even though you didn't.

I don't know how to explain it but it's sad because this stuff really does work. I'm fclosing girls right and left off hotornot. So far none have known anything.
 

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Her asking you this is a sh*t test...
Agreed. It's just another barrier a woman will put up.

if a girl was to ask me that, I would say
"NO I'm not a PUA. I'm a pimp. I just left my fur coat and gold chains at home. As a matter or fact, why don't you work the corner of main and abercrombie tonight? I'll have a customer pick you up."
****y/funny is definately the way to go with this.

Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: Absolutely! I try different and more artistic ways each day to pick up my dirty socks!

Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: How did you know I airbrush pickup trucks for a living?

Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: No, I'm a pickle artist. I carve sculptures out of pickles for a living.
 

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****y/funny is definately the way to go with this.

Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: Absolutely! I try different and more artistic ways each day to pick up my dirty socks!

Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: How did you know I airbrush pickup trucks for a living?

Her: Are you a PUA?
PUA: No, I'm a pickle artist. I carve sculptures out of pickles for a living.

ha ha ha,:crackup: pickle artist ha ha ha:D
 

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I was going to suggest "No I'm a con-artist. Want to buy a bridge?" but the pickle line is funnier.
 

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I had a recent lay in the last couple weeks where during the debrief, she asked me if I had ever heard of Mystery. I played dumb but I think she knew.

She had read about him in a magazine, and since I was peacocked when I met her and I used some of his tactics, she knew. Didn't stop me from rocking the sarge and closing it on Day2, but it was weird nonetheless.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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