"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HB 9 keeps mentioning "how she can't stay out late"...

pyros

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yes, she's making fun of you, and she's not into you. But because she knows you dig her, she wants you as an orbiter that night, just in case her ego is not as high as expected.

In other words, JUST DONT REPLY TO HER AND IGNORE HER FOREVER, unless you want to waste your time and feel like a loser after that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"Hey I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I had some unexpected stuff pop up with my graduation and I really need to take care of that right now I'm going to have to cancel tonight I'm so sorry"
I thought this message was funny... she hates to be the bearer of bad news

The bad news that she is solely responsible for. Yep, just passing the message along. Don't kill the messenger guys

10/10 word choice

But yeah based on her last message she's either trying to hook you up with her gay cousin or she is pretty immature
 

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Update:

So this is funny. 18 days later this girl texts me this.

Her: Hey, were you on west last night?

Me: Yes it was so crazy, how did you know?

Her: I think I saw you last night. We are retracing our steps from last night.

Me: I was at concrete cowboy, the ranch, and of course Kung Fu.

Her: LOL we were at the ranch and kung fu too I think I saw you at the ranch. I can't remember what color shirt. :)

Me: Maybe we should see each other on purpose sometime.

Her: Lol maybe so. Just let me know when.
 

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1 I wouldnt have suggested to get together after what she did the previous time. You look too over-eager which is a turn off.
2 You can ask her out again and this would be her final opportunity, or you can just forget about her unless she shows active interest in meeting up with you. (ie, she suggests to meet, she asks you out, she texts you a lot, etc).

I would forget about her unless she contacts you an shows WAY MORE INTEREST, because in my experience, when a girl acts this way it leads nowhere.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Update:

So this is funny. 18 days later this girl texts me this.

Her: Hey, were you on west last night?

Me: Yes it was so crazy, how did you know?

Her: I think I saw you last night. We are retracing our steps from last night.

Me: I was at concrete cowboy, the ranch, and of course Kung Fu.

Her: LOL we were at the ranch and kung fu too I think I saw you at the ranch. I can't remember what color shirt. :)

Me: Maybe we should see each other on purpose sometime.

Her: Lol maybe so. Just let me know when.
Damn bro I am so jealous of you Austin is amazing. The women there are just ... Perfect. Cute and not all that stuck up compared to California women.
 

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Don't waste your time. She has to bring up rescheduling, not you. Even if you do right and make a date here, she will flake because she can.
 
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