"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HB 8 Still in Love with EX-BF LTR. But is into ME.

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Hey guys,

I am very confused at this moment. I met this girl that is everything I'm lookin for at the moment. We have great chemistry. The thing is, her EX keep on trying to get back with her. She still love him, but deep inside she cannot be with him for the things he have done. Now moving on, this girl is totally into me. We have lots of talk about, we kino, we makeout, she thinks i'm funny and attractive etc. But she thinks this is wrong for some reason. I ask her why, she said bc deep deep down inside she still love her. I'm spending a whole day with her tomorrow, how can I lower her shield down a bit? and convinced her that this is not 'wrong' since their not together anymore? Thanks fellas.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd start moving away from her, giving her time to think whether she wants you or her ex-bf.
It's like this, you're pulling away yourself from her, and if she wants you badly enough, give a little to her ONLY if she forgets about her ex.

Tell her that you can't be with someone who still has feelings for someone else, it's simple and true, don't try to impress her or anything to lower her shield, because she shouldn't have a shield in the first place.
 
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wizzard is right. you are making yourself into a fallback. like if things dont work out with Ex-bf...then she'll go to you.

you need to be more manly. she should be the one worried about you/.
 
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