"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HB 8 Still in Love with EX-BF LTR. But is into ME.

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aznxboi

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Hey guys,

I am very confused at this moment. I met this girl that is everything I'm lookin for at the moment. We have great chemistry. The thing is, her EX keep on trying to get back with her. She still love him, but deep inside she cannot be with him for the things he have done. Now moving on, this girl is totally into me. We have lots of talk about, we kino, we makeout, she thinks i'm funny and attractive etc. But she thinks this is wrong for some reason. I ask her why, she said bc deep deep down inside she still love her. I'm spending a whole day with her tomorrow, how can I lower her shield down a bit? and convinced her that this is not 'wrong' since their not together anymore? Thanks fellas.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I'd start moving away from her, giving her time to think whether she wants you or her ex-bf.
It's like this, you're pulling away yourself from her, and if she wants you badly enough, give a little to her ONLY if she forgets about her ex.

Tell her that you can't be with someone who still has feelings for someone else, it's simple and true, don't try to impress her or anything to lower her shield, because she shouldn't have a shield in the first place.
 
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wizzard is right. you are making yourself into a fallback. like if things dont work out with Ex-bf...then she'll go to you.

you need to be more manly. she should be the one worried about you/.
 
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