Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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HB 8 Still in Love with EX-BF LTR. But is into ME.

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Hey guys,

I am very confused at this moment. I met this girl that is everything I'm lookin for at the moment. We have great chemistry. The thing is, her EX keep on trying to get back with her. She still love him, but deep inside she cannot be with him for the things he have done. Now moving on, this girl is totally into me. We have lots of talk about, we kino, we makeout, she thinks i'm funny and attractive etc. But she thinks this is wrong for some reason. I ask her why, she said bc deep deep down inside she still love her. I'm spending a whole day with her tomorrow, how can I lower her shield down a bit? and convinced her that this is not 'wrong' since their not together anymore? Thanks fellas.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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I'd start moving away from her, giving her time to think whether she wants you or her ex-bf.
It's like this, you're pulling away yourself from her, and if she wants you badly enough, give a little to her ONLY if she forgets about her ex.

Tell her that you can't be with someone who still has feelings for someone else, it's simple and true, don't try to impress her or anything to lower her shield, because she shouldn't have a shield in the first place.
 

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wizzard is right. you are making yourself into a fallback. like if things dont work out with Ex-bf...then she'll go to you.

you need to be more manly. she should be the one worried about you/.
 
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