"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HB 6 offering to pay for a return flight to sleep with me

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OUTCOME:

Just landed back home.

The trip went great. I think she knew I had a "reputation" and wanted to be discreet, outside the knowledge of her current colleagues in medicine.

She was a virgin and probably wanted to get it over with. She paid for the room, food and return flights.

Got my d!ck sucked, got wined and dined by a very sweet doctor and had an adventure of sorts.

Managed to make a connection.

I have to be careful of the reciprocity bias of "being in her debt" because she did a lot for me.

I would say it partly worked because I wouldn't mind being there for her as a friend. Sex and free medical consultation is a bonus.

What's your opinion?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OUTCOME:

Just landed back home.

The trip went great. I think she knew I had a "reputation" and wanted to be discreet, outside the knowledge of her current colleagues in medicine.

She was a virgin and probably wanted to get it over with. She paid for the room, food and return flights.

Got my d!ck sucked, got wined and dined by a very sweet doctor and had an adventure of sorts.

Managed to make a connection.

I have to be careful of the reciprocity bias of "being in her debt" because she did a lot for me.

I would say it partly worked because I wouldn't mind being there for her as a friend. Sex and free medical consultation is a bonus.

What's your opinion?
Glad to hear positive insights. How was her affection towards you? Was she all over you, how was the treatment, was it to spoil you?
 

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OUTCOME:

Just landed back home.

The trip went great. I think she knew I had a "reputation" and wanted to be discreet, outside the knowledge of her current colleagues in medicine.

She was a virgin and probably wanted to get it over with. She paid for the room, food and return flights.

Got my d!ck sucked, got wined and dined by a very sweet doctor and had an adventure of sorts.

Managed to make a connection.

I have to be careful of the reciprocity bias of "being in her debt" because she did a lot for me.

I would say it partly worked because I wouldn't mind being there for her as a friend. Sex and free medical consultation is a bonus.

What's your opinion?
How was it an old fling if you or noone else ever had sex with her?
 

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Glad to hear positive insights. How was her affection towards you? Was she all over you, how was the treatment, was it to spoil you?
She seemed to be super compliant to anything I asked and went out of her way to make me happy.

I do think she's looking for a relationship of sorts with me but knows I'm not the kind.

I can say I won't consider her just a one night stand, but maybe a potentially good friend.
 

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How was it an old fling if you or noone else ever had sex with her?
We met years ago and made out, got handsy in a cinema. Never got around to calling her again.

She said that I was her last kiss and she hasn't been with anyone since.

I find it hard to believe, but considering she's been studying for medicine and was definitely a virgin, maybe it's true.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She seemed to be super compliant to anything I asked and went out of her way to make me happy.

I do think she's looking for a relationship of sorts with me but knows I'm not the kind.

I can say I won't consider her just a one night stand, but maybe a potentially good friend.
How old is she? Virgin in late age equal she will be after you.
 

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We met years ago and made out, got handsy in a cinema. Never got around to calling her again.

She said that I was her last kiss and she hasn't been with anyone since.

I find it hard to believe, but considering she's been studying for medicine and was definitely a virgin, maybe it's true.
Umm...I would never call that a fling...but glad you had fun over the weekend.

A fling is someone you bang a few times at least but it was never serious.
 
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She was a virgin and probably wanted to get it over with.

What's your opinion?
Glad things worked out. I think the best expectation was that you are going to fly there and have sex with her and have a good time which you did.

As for being a virgin...hmmm. Either way you shouldn't be affected as it's low investment.

I would be curious as to how good/bad she was in bed. Was it consistent with that of a virgin? How good was the BJ? You know girls that do bj's and anal still consider themselves a virgin. Did she bleed at all?
 

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Glad things worked out. I think the best expectation was that you are going to fly there and have sex with her and have a good time which you did.

As for being a virgin...hmmm. Either way you shouldn't be affected as it's low investment.

I would be curious as to how good/bad she was in bed. Was it consistent with that of a virgin? How good was the BJ? You know girls that do bj's and anal still consider themselves a virgin. Did she bleed at all?
The BJ didn't seem like a first time for sure. She did bleed and her hymen was particularly difficult to get through. Almost felt like she had some issue with it.

I'm sure she's been intimate with guys apart from me in the past years though she says she hasn't.

Not that I can care, overall a fun experience and a useful connection.
 

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The BJ didn't seem like a first time for sure. She did bleed and her hymen was particularly difficult to get through. Almost felt like she had some issue with it.
Damn, she really was a virgin. I didn't even think they existed these days. lol :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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