"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Havn't been laid in 2 months

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Great, it's 2 month you can use to make your life better :)

7 months here.. And life never been better.

A man is valued about what he does in his free time.

Lincoln said: "if you gave me 7hours to chop a tree, I would use 6 of them to sharpen my axe"
 

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"Scared" might even be the word I'd use, scared to face emotion. I don't want to date a girl and deal with that headache of having to constantly be on my phone, put effort forth, etc.
Really? If the girl was young and attractive I'd be all over it.

I have a couple of very attractive girls out here I'm talking to and one will materialize for sure in the next few days. But I'm still dissatisfied. I never had trouble pulling women after I came to SS and got the game down. I'll admit there's some rust. But it shouldnt be THIS bad, right?
It's bad out there if you want to have sex with a young attractive girl with little baggage. If you want to get a 30 or 40+ girl with baggage and average looks, it's pretty simple.

The hot ones are in your head. It's hard to get them out when Hollywood, Disney, Individual Countries, MBAs, Nobel Prize Winners and Presidents value them like crazy, and Sosuave tells its members not to. :)
 
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