"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Havnt been here in ages...

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eternal

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I'm still around now, only I'm "Eternal." Not on here as often...

Where in the hell have YOU been?
 

SELF-MASTERY

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:wave: HI

welcome back
 

WesCottII

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Ha! I remember you.

El Nino, right?
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Eteeeeeeeeeernal
haha
Not a mod anymore eh?

Me I been working/partying/getting into trouble
Thanks to this site, I have a reputation of being a Manwh0re now and every girl warns the other about me
Lol

Hi to you too Self Mastery :D

hah whats up westcott! Yeah El nino :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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B-Lemond

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Capt JACK!!!

YOU'RE BACK! :woo: :cheer:

haha....Actually, I have no idea who you are.

Nonetheless, why did you leave and what made you come back after all this time?
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Hello Mister B-Lemond
I'm Luis :-D and I like cake
Now you know me :p

Hmm why I left I don't know why I just stopped coming to this website one day and than after months and months of going out a lot, drinking, hookin up with chicks I remembered about everyone here and than I came back to see how everyone doing :]
 

SELF-MASTERY

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you haven't missed anything
 

sifer

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Not sure if anyone remembers gotnone but that was me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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