Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
What happend to crazykid? o.o?
And wheres all the people I used to know!?
And wheres all the people I used to know!?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Havnt been here in ages...
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
SELF-MASTERY
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:wave: HI
welcome back
welcome back
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Ha! I remember you.
El Nino, right?
El Nino, right?
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Eteeeeeeeeeernal
haha
Not a mod anymore eh?
Me I been working/partying/getting into trouble
Thanks to this site, I have a reputation of being a Manwh0re now and every girl warns the other about me
Lol
Hi to you too Self Mastery
hah whats up westcott! Yeah El nino
haha
Not a mod anymore eh?
Me I been working/partying/getting into trouble
Thanks to this site, I have a reputation of being a Manwh0re now and every girl warns the other about me
Lol
Hi to you too Self Mastery
hah whats up westcott! Yeah El nino
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Welcome back.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
Capt JACK!!!
YOU'RE BACK! :woo: :cheer:
haha....Actually, I have no idea who you are.
Nonetheless, why did you leave and what made you come back after all this time?
YOU'RE BACK! :woo: :cheer:
haha....Actually, I have no idea who you are.
Nonetheless, why did you leave and what made you come back after all this time?
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Hello Mister B-Lemond
I'm Luis :-D and I like cake
Now you know me
Hmm why I left I don't know why I just stopped coming to this website one day and than after months and months of going out a lot, drinking, hookin up with chicks I remembered about everyone here and than I came back to see how everyone doing :]
SELF-MASTERY
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you haven't missed anything
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
hello!