"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Havnt been here in ages...

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal

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I'm still around now, only I'm "Eternal." Not on here as often...

Where in the hell have YOU been?
 

SELF-MASTERY

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:wave: HI

welcome back
 

WesCottII

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Ha! I remember you.

El Nino, right?
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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Eteeeeeeeeeernal
haha
Not a mod anymore eh?

Me I been working/partying/getting into trouble
Thanks to this site, I have a reputation of being a Manwh0re now and every girl warns the other about me
Lol

Hi to you too Self Mastery :D

hah whats up westcott! Yeah El nino :p
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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B-Lemond

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Capt JACK!!!

YOU'RE BACK! :woo: :cheer:

haha....Actually, I have no idea who you are.

Nonetheless, why did you leave and what made you come back after all this time?
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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o_O
Hello Mister B-Lemond
I'm Luis :-D and I like cake
Now you know me :p

Hmm why I left I don't know why I just stopped coming to this website one day and than after months and months of going out a lot, drinking, hookin up with chicks I remembered about everyone here and than I came back to see how everyone doing :]
 

SELF-MASTERY

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you haven't missed anything
 

sifer

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Not sure if anyone remembers gotnone but that was me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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