"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chamber36

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Anyway i been really slacking with my plate spinning. I feel like i need some fresh girls. I'd say i dropped the plates but they are kinda sticking around.

1 is a girl who i couldnt get past LMR with. She came over to my house for a secret rendez-vous while she had an LTR. She meets up with my closet gay friend every now and then, and i'm thinking it's to get closer to me. Her attraction isn't really dwindling from what i can tell. I been distant lately. I see her when i work in the club, and i known her for a few years now.

The second girl i met through her boyfriend and she IM's me sometimes and sometimes we meet for drinks but nothing happened yet, after 3 dates!! this is over the span of a year now btw. I'm trying to waste less time on her.

Third girl is a latina who i told u about. When i met her i acted all boisterous like hey lets make some babies etc. Told her i was going for the bad boy image. Anyways i think she has a crush on me. Now i found out a few weeks ago she has some secret relationship with some dude. Her bff told me. Her bff really wants to **** me i can tell it's really ridiculous. they both give me a million passive IOI's through their body language.

I dunno wat to do though any tips??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oneboy21

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Don't loose them, Keep them around as Social circle
Don't pursue these women they are waste of time. Try to game on other girls.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Date single girls. Don't date girls that have boyfriends. That's a good start.
 
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