"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chamber36

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Anyway i been really slacking with my plate spinning. I feel like i need some fresh girls. I'd say i dropped the plates but they are kinda sticking around.

1 is a girl who i couldnt get past LMR with. She came over to my house for a secret rendez-vous while she had an LTR. She meets up with my closet gay friend every now and then, and i'm thinking it's to get closer to me. Her attraction isn't really dwindling from what i can tell. I been distant lately. I see her when i work in the club, and i known her for a few years now.

The second girl i met through her boyfriend and she IM's me sometimes and sometimes we meet for drinks but nothing happened yet, after 3 dates!! this is over the span of a year now btw. I'm trying to waste less time on her.

Third girl is a latina who i told u about. When i met her i acted all boisterous like hey lets make some babies etc. Told her i was going for the bad boy image. Anyways i think she has a crush on me. Now i found out a few weeks ago she has some secret relationship with some dude. Her bff told me. Her bff really wants to **** me i can tell it's really ridiculous. they both give me a million passive IOI's through their body language.

I dunno wat to do though any tips??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oneboy21

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Don't loose them, Keep them around as Social circle
Don't pursue these women they are waste of time. Try to game on other girls.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Date single girls. Don't date girls that have boyfriends. That's a good start.
 
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