"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chamber36

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Anyway i been really slacking with my plate spinning. I feel like i need some fresh girls. I'd say i dropped the plates but they are kinda sticking around.

1 is a girl who i couldnt get past LMR with. She came over to my house for a secret rendez-vous while she had an LTR. She meets up with my closet gay friend every now and then, and i'm thinking it's to get closer to me. Her attraction isn't really dwindling from what i can tell. I been distant lately. I see her when i work in the club, and i known her for a few years now.

The second girl i met through her boyfriend and she IM's me sometimes and sometimes we meet for drinks but nothing happened yet, after 3 dates!! this is over the span of a year now btw. I'm trying to waste less time on her.

Third girl is a latina who i told u about. When i met her i acted all boisterous like hey lets make some babies etc. Told her i was going for the bad boy image. Anyways i think she has a crush on me. Now i found out a few weeks ago she has some secret relationship with some dude. Her bff told me. Her bff really wants to **** me i can tell it's really ridiculous. they both give me a million passive IOI's through their body language.

I dunno wat to do though any tips??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't loose them, Keep them around as Social circle
Don't pursue these women they are waste of time. Try to game on other girls.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Date single girls. Don't date girls that have boyfriends. That's a good start.
 
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