"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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having trouble making moves

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dannowillbookem

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its rediculously hard, and mostly just for this one girl. seems whenever i do anything she gives me a weird look and then i'm like um backoff danno and then when i get home she ims me and is like why didnt u make a move? god. she says she sometimes gives weird looks and doesnt know it...i just need some advice/peptalk to help me ignore whatever weird looks shes giving me and go ahead and kiss her.

now i'm scared to kiss. wtf.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Juggalo

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Check out my thread about the moves. A lot of DJs around here gave me some really good advice that you'll benefit from as well.

You're like me...you're just afraid of rejection...are you inexperienced as well?
 
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dannowillbookem

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no really. i've banged a few chicks but they might have made it easy...or at least easier.

this chick is like whoa. messing with my head.
 
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MrS

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Next time, make a move, and do this in the future.

Juggalo, where's your thread mate?
I couldn't seem to find it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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