"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannowillbookem

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its rediculously hard, and mostly just for this one girl. seems whenever i do anything she gives me a weird look and then i'm like um backoff danno and then when i get home she ims me and is like why didnt u make a move? god. she says she sometimes gives weird looks and doesnt know it...i just need some advice/peptalk to help me ignore whatever weird looks shes giving me and go ahead and kiss her.

now i'm scared to kiss. wtf.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Juggalo

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Check out my thread about the moves. A lot of DJs around here gave me some really good advice that you'll benefit from as well.

You're like me...you're just afraid of rejection...are you inexperienced as well?
 

dannowillbookem

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no really. i've banged a few chicks but they might have made it easy...or at least easier.

this chick is like whoa. messing with my head.
 

MrS

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Next time, make a move, and do this in the future.

Juggalo, where's your thread mate?
I couldn't seem to find it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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