"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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having trouble making moves

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dannowillbookem

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its rediculously hard, and mostly just for this one girl. seems whenever i do anything she gives me a weird look and then i'm like um backoff danno and then when i get home she ims me and is like why didnt u make a move? god. she says she sometimes gives weird looks and doesnt know it...i just need some advice/peptalk to help me ignore whatever weird looks shes giving me and go ahead and kiss her.

now i'm scared to kiss. wtf.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Check out my thread about the moves. A lot of DJs around here gave me some really good advice that you'll benefit from as well.

You're like me...you're just afraid of rejection...are you inexperienced as well?
 
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no really. i've banged a few chicks but they might have made it easy...or at least easier.

this chick is like whoa. messing with my head.
 
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Next time, make a move, and do this in the future.

Juggalo, where's your thread mate?
I couldn't seem to find it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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