"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Having trouble finding a job

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I have never had trouble finding a job but lately ive been struggling, i am going to school for computer network engineer, and i need a job until i finish the career that im studying.

I use to work as a dishwasher then i moved on to 7 eleven then target, 7 eleven and target didnt work out too well so now im in search of a job.

I went to another target earlier and they were gonna hire me basicly but the lady told me that she cant give me an interview cause the last target that i worked out has an "red alert" or something like that. she said that i should call them to fix the problem and get back to them and that i will be basicly hired.

im 21 by the way
What are some good job finding techniques, thank you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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John_Galt

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Job finding techniques: Newspaper, Online job sites, etc.
 

oakraiderz2

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Work study, gas station, restaurant, pizza delivery
 

LA_Chico

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join coast guard, my buddy joined and hes in florida bro
 

Derek Flint

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Plain & Simple said:
I have never had trouble finding a job but lately ive been struggling, i am going to school for computer network engineer, and i need a job until i finish the career that im studying.

I use to work as a dishwasher then i moved on to 7 eleven then target, 7 eleven and target didnt work out too well so now im in search of a job.

I went to another target earlier and they were gonna hire me basicly but the lady told me that she cant give me an interview cause the last target that i worked out has an "red alert" or something like that. she said that i should call them to fix the problem and get back to them and that i will be basicly hired.

im 21 by the way
What are some good job finding techniques, thank you.
You might be able to find a job doing Software Quality Assurance

Not game testing, but other types of software.

That was my first job in the computer/software industry several years ago, and they usually pay around $15.00 an hour or so to start, or at least they do in California.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Forms

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Ask your buddies to keep their ears open. That is what will get you a job that you might actually enjoy. Aside from that, you can always just decide what kind of industry you would like to get into, and just hit every place in town that does that till someone bites.
For about 3 years of college I was a baggage handler at the airport. The pay is just ok, but you get free flights all over the world. Which is a nice perk. Its also good because it keeps you active, and its the kind of work that makes you realize why you go to college (so you don't have to do **** like that the rest of your life)
 

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Craigslist always has some good entry-level stuff.
 

Plain & Simple

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Well target just hired me!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BDDazza

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Derek Flint said:
You might be able to find a job doing Software Quality Assurance

Not game testing, but other types of software.

That was my first job in the computer/software industry several years ago, and they usually pay around $15.00 an hour or so to start, or at least they do in California.
Very true, these days you can get into Software Testing with only a ISTQB certification. Mate earns about £20 per hour for IBM.

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Get a resume professionally written and also cover letter. It will cost under a hundred bucks. When I got laid off I was spamming my resume for 3 months. Finally I got a call from 1 place in that 3 months, and they hired me. You never know who is going to call and usually nobody does.

You should be really aggressive and a few days after sending your resume, call the company HR and ask for an interview.
 
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