"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Having trouble finding a job

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I have never had trouble finding a job but lately ive been struggling, i am going to school for computer network engineer, and i need a job until i finish the career that im studying.

I use to work as a dishwasher then i moved on to 7 eleven then target, 7 eleven and target didnt work out too well so now im in search of a job.

I went to another target earlier and they were gonna hire me basicly but the lady told me that she cant give me an interview cause the last target that i worked out has an "red alert" or something like that. she said that i should call them to fix the problem and get back to them and that i will be basicly hired.

im 21 by the way
What are some good job finding techniques, thank you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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John_Galt

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Job finding techniques: Newspaper, Online job sites, etc.
 

oakraiderz2

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Work study, gas station, restaurant, pizza delivery
 

LA_Chico

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join coast guard, my buddy joined and hes in florida bro
 

Derek Flint

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Plain & Simple said:
I have never had trouble finding a job but lately ive been struggling, i am going to school for computer network engineer, and i need a job until i finish the career that im studying.

I use to work as a dishwasher then i moved on to 7 eleven then target, 7 eleven and target didnt work out too well so now im in search of a job.

I went to another target earlier and they were gonna hire me basicly but the lady told me that she cant give me an interview cause the last target that i worked out has an "red alert" or something like that. she said that i should call them to fix the problem and get back to them and that i will be basicly hired.

im 21 by the way
What are some good job finding techniques, thank you.
You might be able to find a job doing Software Quality Assurance

Not game testing, but other types of software.

That was my first job in the computer/software industry several years ago, and they usually pay around $15.00 an hour or so to start, or at least they do in California.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Forms

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Ask your buddies to keep their ears open. That is what will get you a job that you might actually enjoy. Aside from that, you can always just decide what kind of industry you would like to get into, and just hit every place in town that does that till someone bites.
For about 3 years of college I was a baggage handler at the airport. The pay is just ok, but you get free flights all over the world. Which is a nice perk. Its also good because it keeps you active, and its the kind of work that makes you realize why you go to college (so you don't have to do **** like that the rest of your life)
 

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Craigslist always has some good entry-level stuff.
 

Plain & Simple

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Well target just hired me!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BDDazza

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Derek Flint said:
You might be able to find a job doing Software Quality Assurance

Not game testing, but other types of software.

That was my first job in the computer/software industry several years ago, and they usually pay around $15.00 an hour or so to start, or at least they do in California.
Very true, these days you can get into Software Testing with only a ISTQB certification. Mate earns about £20 per hour for IBM.

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Get a resume professionally written and also cover letter. It will cost under a hundred bucks. When I got laid off I was spamming my resume for 3 months. Finally I got a call from 1 place in that 3 months, and they hired me. You never know who is going to call and usually nobody does.

You should be really aggressive and a few days after sending your resume, call the company HR and ask for an interview.
 
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