"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Having trouble finding a job

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I have never had trouble finding a job but lately ive been struggling, i am going to school for computer network engineer, and i need a job until i finish the career that im studying.

I use to work as a dishwasher then i moved on to 7 eleven then target, 7 eleven and target didnt work out too well so now im in search of a job.

I went to another target earlier and they were gonna hire me basicly but the lady told me that she cant give me an interview cause the last target that i worked out has an "red alert" or something like that. she said that i should call them to fix the problem and get back to them and that i will be basicly hired.

im 21 by the way
What are some good job finding techniques, thank you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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John_Galt

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Job finding techniques: Newspaper, Online job sites, etc.
 

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Work study, gas station, restaurant, pizza delivery
 

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join coast guard, my buddy joined and hes in florida bro
 

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Plain & Simple said:
I have never had trouble finding a job but lately ive been struggling, i am going to school for computer network engineer, and i need a job until i finish the career that im studying.

I use to work as a dishwasher then i moved on to 7 eleven then target, 7 eleven and target didnt work out too well so now im in search of a job.

I went to another target earlier and they were gonna hire me basicly but the lady told me that she cant give me an interview cause the last target that i worked out has an "red alert" or something like that. she said that i should call them to fix the problem and get back to them and that i will be basicly hired.

im 21 by the way
What are some good job finding techniques, thank you.
You might be able to find a job doing Software Quality Assurance

Not game testing, but other types of software.

That was my first job in the computer/software industry several years ago, and they usually pay around $15.00 an hour or so to start, or at least they do in California.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Forms

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Ask your buddies to keep their ears open. That is what will get you a job that you might actually enjoy. Aside from that, you can always just decide what kind of industry you would like to get into, and just hit every place in town that does that till someone bites.
For about 3 years of college I was a baggage handler at the airport. The pay is just ok, but you get free flights all over the world. Which is a nice perk. Its also good because it keeps you active, and its the kind of work that makes you realize why you go to college (so you don't have to do **** like that the rest of your life)
 

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Craigslist always has some good entry-level stuff.
 

Plain & Simple

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Well target just hired me!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Flint said:
You might be able to find a job doing Software Quality Assurance

Not game testing, but other types of software.

That was my first job in the computer/software industry several years ago, and they usually pay around $15.00 an hour or so to start, or at least they do in California.
Very true, these days you can get into Software Testing with only a ISTQB certification. Mate earns about £20 per hour for IBM.

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Get a resume professionally written and also cover letter. It will cost under a hundred bucks. When I got laid off I was spamming my resume for 3 months. Finally I got a call from 1 place in that 3 months, and they hired me. You never know who is going to call and usually nobody does.

You should be really aggressive and a few days after sending your resume, call the company HR and ask for an interview.
 
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