"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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having to see her everyday

the_azn_fu

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i see her everyday at school.

any tips to keep to keep things fresh or is this relationship doomed?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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the_azn_fu said:
i see her everyday at school.

any tips to keep to keep things fresh or is this relationship doomed?
how long has the relationship been going on?

add a little bit more details

i mean... i could just say... "push/pull" like all the sosuave zealots here would say (not anymore on this thread since i already called them out on it!)... but that doesn't cut it.
 

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Michele said:
how long has the relationship been going on?

add a little bit more details

i mean... i could just say... "push/pull" like all the sosuave zealots here would say (not anymore on this thread since i already called them out on it!)... but that doesn't cut it.
Push/Pull is just one piece of the puzzle, you know that.

Anyway, yeah, details my friend, details. The more you give us, the more we give you.
 

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lmfao...

You could PUSH the door instead of PULLing the door. Or, you could just KICK the damn thing..

Keeping a relationship 'fresh'...is hard, but to counter the 'everyday effect'...don't see her everyday. Duh!
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Docs said:
lmfao...

You could PUSH the door instead of PULLing the door. Or, you could just KICK the damn thing..

Keeping a relationship 'fresh'...is hard, but to counter the 'everyday effect'...don't see her everyday. Duh!
pretty much what i was going to say... even if you did give details...

but i thought to myself... it's harder than you think SOMETIMES to avoid a chick during school... they might confront you on it and try starting some dumb ****... which of course as a "don juan", you "don't take **** from a *****" and then you should just kill her.

yeah... the only solution is that you should kill her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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