"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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having to see her everyday

the_azn_fu

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i see her everyday at school.

any tips to keep to keep things fresh or is this relationship doomed?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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the_azn_fu said:
i see her everyday at school.

any tips to keep to keep things fresh or is this relationship doomed?
how long has the relationship been going on?

add a little bit more details

i mean... i could just say... "push/pull" like all the sosuave zealots here would say (not anymore on this thread since i already called them out on it!)... but that doesn't cut it.
 

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Michele said:
how long has the relationship been going on?

add a little bit more details

i mean... i could just say... "push/pull" like all the sosuave zealots here would say (not anymore on this thread since i already called them out on it!)... but that doesn't cut it.
Push/Pull is just one piece of the puzzle, you know that.

Anyway, yeah, details my friend, details. The more you give us, the more we give you.
 

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lmfao...

You could PUSH the door instead of PULLing the door. Or, you could just KICK the damn thing..

Keeping a relationship 'fresh'...is hard, but to counter the 'everyday effect'...don't see her everyday. Duh!
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Docs said:
lmfao...

You could PUSH the door instead of PULLing the door. Or, you could just KICK the damn thing..

Keeping a relationship 'fresh'...is hard, but to counter the 'everyday effect'...don't see her everyday. Duh!
pretty much what i was going to say... even if you did give details...

but i thought to myself... it's harder than you think SOMETIMES to avoid a chick during school... they might confront you on it and try starting some dumb ****... which of course as a "don juan", you "don't take **** from a *****" and then you should just kill her.

yeah... the only solution is that you should kill her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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