"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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having to see her everyday

the_azn_fu

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i see her everyday at school.

any tips to keep to keep things fresh or is this relationship doomed?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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the_azn_fu said:
i see her everyday at school.

any tips to keep to keep things fresh or is this relationship doomed?
how long has the relationship been going on?

add a little bit more details

i mean... i could just say... "push/pull" like all the sosuave zealots here would say (not anymore on this thread since i already called them out on it!)... but that doesn't cut it.
 

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Michele said:
how long has the relationship been going on?

add a little bit more details

i mean... i could just say... "push/pull" like all the sosuave zealots here would say (not anymore on this thread since i already called them out on it!)... but that doesn't cut it.
Push/Pull is just one piece of the puzzle, you know that.

Anyway, yeah, details my friend, details. The more you give us, the more we give you.
 

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lmfao...

You could PUSH the door instead of PULLing the door. Or, you could just KICK the damn thing..

Keeping a relationship 'fresh'...is hard, but to counter the 'everyday effect'...don't see her everyday. Duh!
 

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Docs said:
lmfao...

You could PUSH the door instead of PULLing the door. Or, you could just KICK the damn thing..

Keeping a relationship 'fresh'...is hard, but to counter the 'everyday effect'...don't see her everyday. Duh!
pretty much what i was going to say... even if you did give details...

but i thought to myself... it's harder than you think SOMETIMES to avoid a chick during school... they might confront you on it and try starting some dumb ****... which of course as a "don juan", you "don't take **** from a *****" and then you should just kill her.

yeah... the only solution is that you should kill her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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