Ok so let me tell all this started with a girl named Angela. We dated for a lil bit we really hit it off, we got nasty in the back of a van and than some **** went down and I got really hurt. After that was a girl named Jenn. Me and her went on a couple dates I was diggin her personality and than BOOM I'm finding out she's ****ing around with 3 other guys, so I peace out. The latest one in this story is a girl named Alice. We went on A LOT of dates. She was amazing, everything I wanted in a girl, but she was seeing another guy as well and on valentines I guess he swept her off her feet and she chose him. I'm just sick of all this bull **** happening to me. Any advice?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Having the worst luck finding girl. Advice brothas?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
advice, charge it to the game and keep playing. You gotta lose a few games before you get the hang of it, just keep playing.
Remember every relationship in life comes to an end either by breaking up or death. So it's just a matter of how long you get to enjoy the good times and how good those times are that matters most. It's all temporary in the end.
What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend? A FB? Several FBs? A dozen notches on your bedpost from one night stands? I can't help you because I don't know what it is you want exactly. Do you know?
Remember every relationship in life comes to an end either by breaking up or death. So it's just a matter of how long you get to enjoy the good times and how good those times are that matters most. It's all temporary in the end.
What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend? A FB? Several FBs? A dozen notches on your bedpost from one night stands? I can't help you because I don't know what it is you want exactly. Do you know?
I don't really wanna just sleep around. I want a solid relationship for how ever long. Definitely don't wanna b married. Wanna get into the whole serious relationship than mayb after that just mess around till I find another.Warrior74 said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you want a girlfriend you are going to have to be patient. You are going to have to date, and go out with different girls to find one you like, you are going to have to not be in a hurry to be committed, you are going to have to not be needy, you are going to have to let her decide she wants to be in a relationship and let her ask for one. (the ole "what are we?" question). Until then, practice meeting women and going on dates and see what you like out there. If you are desperate for a girlfriend, you won't get one. Sorry buddy. Good luck.
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You seem to be looking for a girlfriend and you're initiating the start of this relationship. You're getting your feelings hurt every time. If that's the case, you will have to make the girl want to initiate.
You're letting these girls' actions get to you. It could have gone further had you not broke.
You are guilty of the feminine move of catching feelings and making it obvious. The fine for this crime is blue balls, no girlfriend, and a trip to Friendzone, Louisiana.
Case closed.
You're letting these girls' actions get to you. It could have gone further had you not broke.
You are guilty of the feminine move of catching feelings and making it obvious. The fine for this crime is blue balls, no girlfriend, and a trip to Friendzone, Louisiana.
Case closed.