Ok so let me tell all this started with a girl named Angela. We dated for a lil bit we really hit it off, we got nasty in the back of a van and than some **** went down and I got really hurt. After that was a girl named Jenn. Me and her went on a couple dates I was diggin her personality and than BOOM I'm finding out she's ****ing around with 3 other guys, so I peace out. The latest one in this story is a girl named Alice. We went on A LOT of dates. She was amazing, everything I wanted in a girl, but she was seeing another guy as well and on valentines I guess he swept her off her feet and she chose him. I'm just sick of all this bull **** happening to me. Any advice?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Having the worst luck finding girl. Advice brothas?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
advice, charge it to the game and keep playing. You gotta lose a few games before you get the hang of it, just keep playing.
Remember every relationship in life comes to an end either by breaking up or death. So it's just a matter of how long you get to enjoy the good times and how good those times are that matters most. It's all temporary in the end.
What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend? A FB? Several FBs? A dozen notches on your bedpost from one night stands? I can't help you because I don't know what it is you want exactly. Do you know?
Remember every relationship in life comes to an end either by breaking up or death. So it's just a matter of how long you get to enjoy the good times and how good those times are that matters most. It's all temporary in the end.
What do you want? Do you want a girlfriend? A FB? Several FBs? A dozen notches on your bedpost from one night stands? I can't help you because I don't know what it is you want exactly. Do you know?
I don't really wanna just sleep around. I want a solid relationship for how ever long. Definitely don't wanna b married. Wanna get into the whole serious relationship than mayb after that just mess around till I find another.Warrior74 said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you want a girlfriend you are going to have to be patient. You are going to have to date, and go out with different girls to find one you like, you are going to have to not be in a hurry to be committed, you are going to have to not be needy, you are going to have to let her decide she wants to be in a relationship and let her ask for one. (the ole "what are we?" question). Until then, practice meeting women and going on dates and see what you like out there. If you are desperate for a girlfriend, you won't get one. Sorry buddy. Good luck.
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You seem to be looking for a girlfriend and you're initiating the start of this relationship. You're getting your feelings hurt every time. If that's the case, you will have to make the girl want to initiate.
You're letting these girls' actions get to you. It could have gone further had you not broke.
You are guilty of the feminine move of catching feelings and making it obvious. The fine for this crime is blue balls, no girlfriend, and a trip to Friendzone, Louisiana.
Case closed.
You're letting these girls' actions get to you. It could have gone further had you not broke.
You are guilty of the feminine move of catching feelings and making it obvious. The fine for this crime is blue balls, no girlfriend, and a trip to Friendzone, Louisiana.
Case closed.