Dhoulmagus
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I don't want to get desperate and break nc, but the ugly fat girl is the only girl I can get.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Having sex with a girl you aren't attracted to
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dhoulmagus
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I did, but I only do it once a day. Should I start doing it twice?pyros said:
hop On hop Off
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This is a bad advice. Please do not listen to this advice!pyros said:
Porn does not make you less desperate. It makes you more desperate. You need help with your mind set, you need re-frame.
You do not become alpha by watching porn. Alphas are busy and have goals. Being alpha takes work and persistence on that work.
Keep working on yourself. Never give up. Your hard work will pay back.
Instead keeping your mind busy of having sex all the time set goals and achive them.
start moving on with your life , go to the gym.... learn something new.
Listen- i just had a breakup one month ago with a w0hre... i was sad for two weeks. kept thinking about her and did nothing .
Said to myself , time to wake up- nothing comes up if i sat down and feel sorry for myself. started to go to the gym, eating a lot and got a bit stronger. invested in my job , reading book of pook , no more nice guy. moving to another apartment.
Do the things you want in your life , keep yourself busy and it will come.
Joe.
start moving on with your life , go to the gym.... learn something new.
Listen- i just had a breakup one month ago with a w0hre... i was sad for two weeks. kept thinking about her and did nothing .
Said to myself , time to wake up- nothing comes up if i sat down and feel sorry for myself. started to go to the gym, eating a lot and got a bit stronger. invested in my job , reading book of pook , no more nice guy. moving to another apartment.
Do the things you want in your life , keep yourself busy and it will come.
Joe.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Dgwizdal
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How fat we talkin?
Mike32ct
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Don't do it. She's like 20 to 30 percent bigger naked after she peels off the tight clothes
Dhoulmagus
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It will be about 3 hours round trip and she's crazy. Is sex worth it?
narcissist
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If she lived next door it wouldn't be worth it. Hell, I wouldn't travel 3 hours for anything less than a 9.5 or higher
VladPatton
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I wouldn't bang that with a rented dıck! Get a grip, man! Porn rulez, fatty droolz.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
_sideways_
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Every one does it secretly
SmooveMooves
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Bruh if your main goal is getting the puss, then that's your problem.
You don't have other interests? Responsibilities?
How about you focus on getting in shape, improving your career, finances, or chasing a passion.
Too many guys making puss 100% of there lives. Sex lasts on average 45 mins.
Its not about the 45 mins.
Its about what you have afterward.
You don't have other interests? Responsibilities?
How about you focus on getting in shape, improving your career, finances, or chasing a passion.
Too many guys making puss 100% of there lives. Sex lasts on average 45 mins.
Its not about the 45 mins.
Its about what you have afterward.
MillionBillionaire
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Go out.. hit the club.. do some cold approaches.. maybe you will get lucky and meet someone new.. if you fail.. then go home and do your thing to porn.. I would kill myself if I got an std or accidently fell in love with a fat chick.
RangerMIke
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I did this ONLY ONCE. I was in the Army and hooked up with my room mates girl friends, friend. They came back from a club... she was drunk off her ass, and feeling really insecure because some dudes were ignoring her at the club.
It actually turned out VERY well. To date, best BJ I ever got. She knew EXACTLY what it was, and honestly was very appreciative of the attention. We never did it again, and remained friends for years. I helped her develop into a women that was attactive, leveraged her positive aspects, worked out with her. Turned her into a women that men wanted.
Truth is it was one of the proudest moments of my life. She frequently would tell me that that night was the most significant moments of her life. I think about her more than all the one and done hooks I've ever had.
It actually turned out VERY well. To date, best BJ I ever got. She knew EXACTLY what it was, and honestly was very appreciative of the attention. We never did it again, and remained friends for years. I helped her develop into a women that was attactive, leveraged her positive aspects, worked out with her. Turned her into a women that men wanted.
Truth is it was one of the proudest moments of my life. She frequently would tell me that that night was the most significant moments of her life. I think about her more than all the one and done hooks I've ever had.
Mike32ct
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This.SmooveMooves said:
It's fine to get laid, but try not to make yourself a slave to the puss.
I know it's easier for me to say because I'm older and probably have a lower sex drive than you, but the point is the same.
You are giving these bytches way too much power over you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Huffman
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I guess I would consider it, but simply because I have more control these days. I can have the balls to say this is just sex and nothing more.
I'd be terribly afraid of leading an ugly woman on, and having to deal with her in the morning. Feeling horribly guilty and just being a bad person. But if you can make it clear that it's only a one-time thing, why not.
Certainly don't drive 3 hours man. You'll have to spend the night, wake up to her. Picture before you, she gets up and goes to the toilet, and you see her fat cellulite bum, she reeks of cold smoke and you think OH MY GOD WHAT HAVE I DONE - but you have to stay for lunch
If you must do it, make it a very clear one night stand.
Pic kind of related
I'd be terribly afraid of leading an ugly woman on, and having to deal with her in the morning. Feeling horribly guilty and just being a bad person. But if you can make it clear that it's only a one-time thing, why not.
Certainly don't drive 3 hours man. You'll have to spend the night, wake up to her. Picture before you, she gets up and goes to the toilet, and you see her fat cellulite bum, she reeks of cold smoke and you think OH MY GOD WHAT HAVE I DONE - but you have to stay for lunch
If you must do it, make it a very clear one night stand.
Pic kind of related